I have a bad habit of talking to and dating the wrong woman because of minor things, and never had any real thought behind it. Punchline is I'm single. These movies where the one you least expect or the one that you hate ending up being the one is most likely a fairy tale.
The one for you will most likely be a friend. Even if you're introduced as a dating scenario, you most likely will have a physical attraction; but it is not their looks that will give them the nod. When that person talks to you like a human being and not like an interview, I would say that's the one, when a women or a man isn't afraid to be honest even if embarrassment or fear of rejection is on the table, and the person won't make up stupid rules or make dumb reasons not to talk to you.
I have a habit of also dating what my friends would think is acceptable when it's not them who has to endure the person. Being told what subject to shoot in a photo shoot can often leave you dumbfounded and lost because the subject doesn't attract you, but is attractive. I've fought for drowning relationships, horrible people, and desperation.
At the end of the day it's ok to be attracted to someone, but you don't have to date or want to be with every attractive thing walking. Please take a serious look at who you are seeing or attracted to. Ask yourself will you be proud or happy with this subject 10-15 years from now, and don't allow your friends to cloud your judgment. Worst thing you can do is allow you friends opinions to keep you from YOUR happiness. God bless
